Some Journeys Change You Forever
Become a surrogate and earn $50,000+ while giving the ultimate gift. Join 2,000+ surrogates already on our platform.
98%
Satisfaction Rate
Why Become a Surrogate?
Surrogacy can be a meaningful way to help another family while also supporting your own goals.
Life-Changing Impact
Give the ultimate gift by helping intended parents achieve their dreams of parenthood.
You Choose Your Match
Browse intended parent profiles and connect directly. No agency middleman. You choose who you move forward with.
Financial Stability
Compensation that can support your family’s goals, depending on your location, experience, and agreement.
Supportive Community
Connect with thousands of experienced surrogates who've been through exactly what you're considering.
Full Medical Coverage
Intended parents typically cover pregnancy-related medical, legal, and insurance costs as part of the agreement.
A Lasting Connection
Many surrogates say their bond with intended parents becomes one of the most meaningful of their lives.
Am I Eligible to Be a Surrogate?
Here are the basic requirements to become a surrogate. If you meet most of them, you can create a free profile and learn more.
Age between
21-40 years old
At least one successful pregnancy
BMI
within healthy range
Non-smoker, no substance abuse
Live in the US or Canada and have legal residency status
Financially
stable
Stories from Our Surrogates
Hear from women who’ve completed their surrogacy journey
“My second journey and I came back here because of how the first one went. The family I carried for are still in my life. That connection started because we chose each other.”
Second Journey
“I was worried it would feel transactional. It didn’t. We talked for weeks before anything was official, just getting to know each other. That mattered a lot to me.”
1 journey completed
“What got me was I actually got to pick. I went through profiles, took my time, said no to a few. Nobody pushed me. Just me deciding when I was ready.”
1 journey completed
Frequently Asked Questions
Nothing. Free to join, free to connect, free forever. No hidden fees, no commission taken from your compensation. Ever.
It depends on your current policy. Some plans cover surrogate pregnancies, others don’t. Before you start, it’s worth reviewing your policy or speaking with an insurance broker who knows surrogacy. In most cases, intended parents cover or contribute to insurance costs as part of the compensation agreement.
You don’t need an agency to use MySurrogateMom. Browse intended parent profiles directly, reach out when someone feels right, and move at your own pace — no waiting lists and no one else deciding your match. If you are also working with an agency, that can still work too.
It varies by location, experience, and what you agree on with the intended parents. First-time surrogates in the US typically see $30,000–$50,000, with experienced surrogates often receiving more. There are usually additional allowances for travel, maternity clothing, and appointments. MySurrogateMom doesn’t set or control compensation — that’s between you and the family you match with.
Independent surrogacy can be safe when you take the proper steps: get to know the intended parents carefully, work with a reproductive lawyer, and use a licensed fertility clinic for screening and medical care. MySurrogateMom helps you connect privately, but legal and medical due diligence should always come next.
You’re in control of who you connect with and how fast things move. No waiting lists, no agency deciding your match, and no one taking a cut of your compensation. The relationship also tends to be more personal — intended parents you find directly are usually more invested in building a real connection with you.
The Most Rewarding Journey of Your Life Starts Here
Join thousands of women exploring surrogacy and connect directly with intended parents across the US and Canada.
No credit card required. No commitment.